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salam, nice to read your blog. i am also muslim with ssa from Indonesia. nice to struggle with you my brother. i also struggle for "the one who believe that change is possible although it's difficult". i also have blog with same vision (gerhanahuda<dot>blogspot<dot>com) gerhanahuda, from indonesia
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Wa Alakum Asalam Brother gerhanahuda,

Alhamdulillah! Nice to hear of your blog! I will link your blog here for people of use, hope you are well!

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People are naturally gay
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If by naturally, you mean as a consqueunce of their nature or environment yes. If by genetics, then no, and this has been proven. Study upon study could find no genetic link with sexual preference.

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how long have you been gay and when did it start? I'm having the same problem as yours and I can't tell my parents or anyone
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Salam,

Firstly, no one is “gay”. A sexuality does not define a person. I had feelings of same sex attraction at 12. Take time to go through this blog to understand the reasons of SSA. Once you are happy with yourself you will find courage to open up.

It is not sinful or haram to have feelings of same sex attraction. Once you understand your history and why you have these feelings, your mind will be at rest. There are millions of people just like you.

And change is possible

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In the Quran, it clearly states that homosexuality is a sin. If you think it's ok to be gay, then it's just your own opinion. It has nothing to do with Islam.
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I think you may have misunderstood this blog

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salam. i agree with you on many things you have posted and shared on this. but one thing i am conceded is how do i ever get married to a woman? i fear i will never be able to be sexually attracted to a female. right now, the thought of any sexual interaction with a female doesn't appeal to me at all. if i do get married, how do i possibly get an erection when i have zero physical attraction toward women? please help me with this i do not want to go to hell
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Wa Alaykum Asalam,

For men with same sex attraction, friendship starts first and then sexual attractions start. This is once you have gone through all stages of therapy and is the final step. Sexuality is more fluid than people think.

Have trust in Allah, no matter how sinful you think you may be, Allah has destined for those who obey Him to recieve Paradise. Your same sex feelings aren’t haram, if you act upon them then it is haram

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Shame and envy

If I were to describe the causes of same sex attraction and how it differs from love, it is the marriage of two factors shame and envy. The Qur’an already calls homosexual relationships as lust (7:81). And we all know that lust isn’t love, its a temporary, physical desire for gratification of animalistic desires, bereft of true emotional connection - which is love.

For this post, I will talk about envy.

Envy can be due to a variety of reasons

-Enmity

-Self-supremacy, pride

-Wonder/Fascination

-Fear of others doing better

-Loving authority

-Plain evilness

The Prophet (sawa) has said envy devours faith as fire consumes wood, such that we are even forgiven for something done in anger but not in envy.

Why? Because we reject Allah’s blessings that He has bestowed on us. Many people love reciting Surah Rahman in which we hear “So which of the favors of your Lord would you deny?”.

In this statement, we realise that we always want that which we can’t have or more than what we currently have. The Prophet (sawa) said " If the son of Adam had a mountain of gold he would wish for another."

The opposite to envy is contentment and therefore the opposite to same sex envy is self acceptance.

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Two Brothers Re-Create Childhood Photos As A Priceless Gift To Their Mother (via Then/Now)

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Two Brothers Re-Create Childhood Photos As A Priceless Gift To Their Mother (via Then/Now)

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Two Brothers Re-Create Childhood Photos As A Priceless Gift To Their Mother (via Then/Now)

This is beautiful. Love of brotherhood. owmeex:

Two Brothers Re-Create Childhood Photos As A Priceless Gift To Their Mother (via Then/Now)

This is beautiful. Love of brotherhood. owmeex:

Two Brothers Re-Create Childhood Photos As A Priceless Gift To Their Mother (via Then/Now)

This is beautiful. Love of brotherhood.

owmeex:

Two Brothers Re-Create Childhood Photos As A Priceless Gift To Their Mother (via Then/Now)

This is beautiful. Love of brotherhood.

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Whoever repents a year before his death Allah accepts his repentance.’ Then he said, ‘A year is too much. Whoever repents a month before his death Allah accepts his repentance.’ Then he said, ‘A month is too much. Whoever repents a week before his death Allah accepts his repentance.’ Then he said, ‘A week is too much. Whoever repents a day before his death Allah accepts his repentance.’ Then he said, ‘A day is too much. Whoever repents before (the moment) he sees the angel of death Allah accepts his repentance
— Imam Jafar al Sadiq (as), Al-Kafi, vol.2 p.440
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